I think the thing that attracted her to me first was my care free attitude. I was a bit of a show off and just did my own thing.

The guy she had the affair with reminds me of myself at 19. Party, drink, hang with friends, no job.

I still am the same old me but I am not 19 anymore. I have a family and that is not something she wants now. Seems like our family is now my family. frown

She has told me multiple times she just does not want commitment. Who knows.

Last edited by LiveToLearn; 11/25/09 05:39 AM.
Me 33
WOW 31
Married 12 years
4 YOD
1 YOD(adoption process)
Bomb & moved out 4/01/09
Divorced 12/17/09