I think this is a good opportunity to turn that request fantasy into some reality thinking.
Why would you WANT to sleep with your W when you darn well know she is sleeping with another man? I get the whole urge thing, but !ICK! Knowing that my exh was with another woman made my skin crawl towards him in that way.
Turn your thoughts around. Not to what you think you are missing. Think...ewwwwwww...you don't want her now anyway?
Make sense? I hope it came out right.
It makes sense and it did come out right.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...