You got tested and you bowed down. Same behavior you exhibit with your wife.
Did you notice when you ignored 'them' and moved on, having fun, joking, they came back. You even got a @#$%^&*
But rather than continuing on, brushing off their behavior, and continue to have fun, you snapped back defensively then apologized and now they re gone. See a pattern here?
These ladies are good. "Obi-Van has trained you well, young Skywalker"
Yes, I see my pattern. But I was not ignoring them or what they had to say. I should have been more attentive and thoughtful and responded first before popping in what I considered to be humorous thoughts. I should have been more considerate which I know is an issue my W has had with me and others have pointed out. So I know it is something I have to be better at focusing on. But I wasn't trying to be rude. But I see how it came across now.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
