He wants to come home....HELP!

[praying_in_GA]

I just want to bang my head against a wall.

I am wondering if there isn't a tid bit of MLC going on with him too. He told me he is trying to change who he is. He said he realized that he blamed all of his unhappiness on me but he was at fault to because he didn't like who he was. So he has changed his soda choice (LOL), his style of dressing, he is trying to become more extroverted, he wants to join an ultimate fighting gym, he refuses to take any type of meds so he can stay clear headed (ie tylenol, motrin), he is learning to enjoy pain, and he said not to be surprised if he gets into fights....as in random fights. Most of this is simple and benign but the last few make me go huh??

It is so surreal to be around him. We neesd to re-learn each other.

Ok, I need ideas on how to become more self confident and relaxed. He is going out tomorrow night with his brother. I have never been comfortable with him going out but part of my changing and growing as a wife is letting go and part of his changing is becoming more extroverted. I need to come to grips with this if we are going to make it. I know he won't cheat on me, but I hate the thought of women coming up to him....especially with the last of wedding band right now.