i said if he doesn't provide support for his children i will go t court and file. if he doesn't pick up his stuff all of it i will get rid of it, if his mother continues to take care of d2 poorly i will put her in daycare. giving key back.

i thought that if i demanded he take all his stuff it would be counter dbing? should i be pursuing it?

not sure what else i can set as far as boundaries. suggestions?

example, if you want to participate in the birth of your son....


Me 39 H 30
d 18 previous marriage
d 2.5 with H
s 4.5months with H
Seperation Nov09
july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline