Well, yes, practicing in front of the mirror sounds okay..it's not so much that we talk about the past, its that my emotional attachment to him is real and when he says he doesn't have one for me (and his actions say otherwise), I then feel I can't go on..and that's what gets me wondering how to keep going when he says it's one-sided emotion. Yet it feels like we're dating minus all the lovey dovey stuff.
It's nice to have the kids to focus on when we're without the other parent isn't it..and then you have a date Sat : ) That's great! I love to see bands, I'm a huge music fan! I know how music can strike an emotional cord sometimes, so I'm totally happy that you'll be moving on with someone that could appreciate and share that fun time with you : ) I also think it must be hard to go through a divorce that sounds like it's not over, with a lot of unsettled biz and nitpicking? going on..it must be difficult to even like the ex through all that! So good for you, enjoy the Holiday, Enjoy the meal (you cooking?) and then exercise your brains out for a week to shed all those excess calories ; ) ..Have fun on Sat!