You know, I have to say, a lot of attention these days is put onto how we look, and what the attraction is. From a woman's perspective, being fit and having a good body type is a perk, but not a necessity. Do you have any idea what it was that attracted her to you in the first place, other than your looks? Looks are good, but they do eventually fade, and there has to be something left than just a pretty face. So maybe by focusing on the other attributes you offer might be better.
Keep in mind that the first thing we do look at is physical appearance, but eventually there has to be something else.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..