WAS seeing reality?

[v1olin]

There is something to say about the confrontation. A few days after that we were both supposed to have an intervue together for my daughters children of divorce support group. I knew the time of the meeting but not the place. The time came and went and she did not call. To be fair, I did not call her either. It took 2 weeks of no contact until one day I dropped the kids off she caught me before I left. She told me to hold on because she wanted to talk to me so I said "ok, whats up?" She wanted to apologize to me for stiffing me on the meeting. When she did it her arms were not crossed and she seemed relaxed. She told me that she did it because she was "pissed" at me. Then she said that she felt violated because I looked at her stuff. I listened and validated, "I understand" "I know". Then I said I had to go. See ya later!


So, tonight we all went to the support group for our D7 and we had to all write what we are thankful for. I wrote that I was thankful for my family and this painful but valuable experience. My W wrote that she was thankful for our 2 daughters and then my d7 made her write my name in there too. haha! Damn, did W look good tonight. I almost said so too. I have been torn between being dark and coming off as pursuing but what do I have to lose?


Yesterday I decided to send her a text with an inside joke from the night we went to the concert with d7. She responded in about 45 seconds. This is an improvement from the last time I tried something like that which was about 6 months ago.Six months ago she would have ignored it. So I sent another and then ended it after that.