It is a very succinctly stated boundary, but in your situation Trixi, would a 'have your lawyer talk to my lawyer," response work better?
I would prefer (as would my H) to just mediate this and be done. He has access to free lawyers thru his work, I don't; thus far we are friendly. Hell, we were "dating" just 3 weeks ago and were working the retrouvaille program. I know he feels guilty right now; I don't want it to turn into a war.....
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing
