don't despair! what I meant is--you'll really have to have some perspective on this time as it gets integrated with the rest of your life to know if it has been lived out.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012
