I need help in the biggest way. I feel so helpless

[timehealsall]

The OW words really tore a hole in me. It was hard and so painful to read.

He came home from the gym and I was in the shower and he just let himself
in (unlocked the door with a pin). I was already done though. I walked out and left him there. Went into the kitchen and fixed myself a snack because i didn't cook. Only for my kids.

He tried to talk to me and asked me what the emails the OW said. I
just remained calm and quiet. he kept saying that my not speaking to
him isn't hurting him. And he also said "so this is how things are going to be?" he also said " so this is done then?" When he pressed further I told him that it's done and that I won't allow myself to continue fighting for someone who doesn't want me.

He then wanted to know what the OW said and I read him
the emails and he just mumbled ridiculous.

I went into my room and he followed me and asked when we'd be putting the Xmas decorations up and If we could do
it tomorrow. (he's leaving Tuesday). I told
him yes and he just stood there. Like waiting for
something. He then said goodnight and went to our media
room. He then text me to ask if i wanted to join him and I said no thanks. Why is he asking me to watch movies?

Do I set boundaries even if he has already expressed that he doesn't want to work things out? He keeps saying we are not together. I know him leaving is going to
drive me mad.