Tostada, With X, I have been desperate, detached, done, back, and then done again. I was not seeing anyone when X visited, I was really hopeful when he was here, I wanted to make it work, but I think that because I had been so detached, when X pulled this again, I recovered fairly quickly, there was no doubt in my mind that enough was enough. I was really sad for a day or two and that was it. I had wasted way too much time on him.
I joined match.com a few days later, just for fun, and went on a few dates with a few guys, and I really hit it off with this guy. He knows some of what happened, I have felt a little strange about exactly what kind of information to share about it.
I havent mentioned it to X, I actually have only spoken to him once since he was here in sept, if he were to ask, I wouldnt lie about it or anything. But I dont know if he knows that I am dating or not, as far as Im concerned its not really any of his business.
I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...
