Thinker, I just told my H on Sunday that I was done; I give up; etc.
I spoke with a L yesterday who told me that because of our disparate incomes, I could expect 60% of the assets. I anticipate H will NOT be happy with this.

I have been wondering the best way to "explain" why I would be a hardass when it comes to the property division--
Quote:
"You can have your freedom and your happiness, but you can't have MINE!"
this is *perfect*.

I am literally going to do a calligraphy of that and put it on my office wall. smile


Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing