feel like giving up - talk to me!

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...only a wife who didn't care about her H would sit back and let him self destruct. So...I call him out on his drinking, bad decisions/spending/irresponsibility/yelling at kids etc.

Is this the type of man you want to be married to? Who are you responsible FOR? You? Who is he responsible FOR? HIM? I am responsible FOR me and TO others without crossing boundaries. Where do your responsibilities stop and his start?[/quote]

You may be right. This is where my resentment lives. I think about this all the time. It's so hard to be me.