It was that new song by Beyonce, Sweet Dream/Beautiful Nightmare.
I'm pretty sure where you're going with this and based on the song lyrics it doesn't really sound like it would be something that H would be thinking towards me right now. I've pretty much figured that OW must've told H something like "oh this is my song to you" or probably some crap like that. Yesterday, after I told H that I had already heard the song a bunch and didn't listen to it he just said "It's catchy isn't it?" and that was all. Still, it ruined the song for me, because I did like it beforehand, and now I just change the channel when it comes on.
Originally Posted By: Ready2Change
Just thinking out loud here. Other ideas to ponder on different behavior.
Originally Posted By: aflowergurlie
he just took the 4-wheeler and trailer and left.
Do you take the 4-wheeler out without H? Might be fun to take a friend and go use it. It is marital property correct? Might stir some emotions in H. If it does, do not react...."Sorry you feel that way".....
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my stuff still in my hands, H got home and came in kitchen door. H looks at me with smile on his face and says "Oh, what did you just get home to?" I just smiled and said yes and then walked out of kitchen to my bedroom and went to bed.
Another option, "Yes, I need to get a few things". Back to bedroom, then out of house again. Go to hotel and let him be home alone....
For the 4-wheeler, this has been a little source of contention between us. It is technically mine and H has a dirtbike. But H doesn't see it that way because he likes the 4-wheeler more than his dirtbike, has ridden it more than his dirtbike, and has a truck to pull the trailer with the 4-wheeler on it, so he can go riding whenever he pleases.
I would love to take the 4-wheeler and go riding with friends, and I have tried to initiate this, but keep getting waylayed by either cancellations or problems with finding someone's truck to use.
The last I said to H about the 4-wheeler, was that I wouldn't say another word about selling it (I had wanted to sell it because I need money (and so he couldn't use it anymore)), and he went ballistic on that one, so I relented and said we could both just use it for our personal use.
I almost had a problem over the weekend when he took it because I wasn't sure WHO he brought with him or was going to be letting ride it. Especially since another rider would require use of MY helmet, gloves, and goggles. I found out before I had to start planning the consequences for what appeared to be a boundary violation, H's bro posted on facebook his status on Sunday confirming that he was the one with H going riding.
H brought his Bro here way back not too long after the bomb and went riding that time as well. I told him then that I didn't have a problem with that. Not sure if that's how I still feel about it, but decided not to make waves about it. I'm just going to take possession of MY riding gear, not just leave it with H's and the other stuff out in the garage.
Hopefully I can get out riding soon, because I have been seriously craving it for sometime now.
For leaving after it looked like I had just gotten home - I thought about doing that too, after the fact though. LOL! Would've been a good one, darn it!
Me-34 XH-33 No Kids We were M-12Y T-15Y 5/09 Same house-separate bedrooms 01/10 I filed for D / H moved out 09/16/10 Divorced
