I spent a lot of time on that post, like so many others spending so much time on your "revolving but never evolving" situation....but you just spend a lot of time & energy to avoid....working on you...
j (and CityGirl) - I dont know why you waste your time anymore by putting together such thoughtful (and colorful) posts only to be ignored.
Kevin - It would not hurt if you could paraphrase and validate what 25 and CG post so they dont feel like they are talking to a brick wall. When you do respond, it sure seems as if you are doing it from a defensive stand point.