WAW turning around? What now?

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We had a good time and had lots to talk about. The one thing that became very clear was the lack of "attraction". We could have a great conversation, we could talk about everything and anything. The only thing that was really missing was that attraction. She is looking for that and since she is not feeling that with me currently and comparing it to the affair the "magic" feelings are just not there.

I take good care of myself, I am active in sports have a very fit body type and keep up with dress and styles. Other woman seem to be very interested but to my wife it is sort of old.

I believe that I am going to try to bring some of that magic back by letting her do some of the chasing. That is the reason for the change in strategy. I guess I see our course that we are on currently taking us to a lifelong friendship. Nothing wrong with that but it is not what my goal is. So I am going to try to keep the stuff that is working and try to also let that butterfly/magic feeling take hold a little.

Seems silly that she can still say I am her best friend and a great dad but she just wants attention from others. I guess that can happen during MLC. You just want more, more for yourself. She just wants to experience and try more.