NY is a fault state when it comes to divorce. I do not want a divorce and H never said that he wanted one. I just let my emotions get the best of me and was thinking that if it ever came to him asking for one and he is with another woman then I would have proof.
I guess I am just jumping the gun. You are right, I don't think I would be able to handle any info on H and OW if that were the case. It would probably throw me back to square one and my heart would rebreak. I would go crazy thinking about what he is doing and resentment from me will definately show up during our interactions with each other. I have to get back on the DB train, I think I got off at the wrong stop. Thanks again Puppy, your experience and wisdom is really helpful.
Me:34 H:34 D:7 D:6 D:3 T:20years M:10years Bomb: Feburary 2009 Separated: May 2009 EA confirmed March 2010
