Not sure what to do

[TrentC]

What concerns me, is that she will see this and see it as validation for her asking for a divorce. I'm sort of in a sticky situation here.

You can't control how she feels about the situation. So don't try.

Any thoughts or ideas on how I still be happy with my son, but also not let her use it as a reason to go through with the divorce or to at least try to make things work ?

Nothing that hasn't been said in MWD's books and countless posts on this forum.

You can't make a wayward wife stay if she wants to go. The only power you have in the relationship is control over yourself and your behavior. Change yourself, and you change the nature of the relationship. Change the relationship enough, and she will question her decisions.