After all this time, I'm trying to be both realistic and pragmatic about the possibilities of reconciliation. I don't know what my W wants, and I don't think she does either. She has apparently broken it off with OM. It was an impossible fantasy situation, so it's not surprising it died a slow death. I guess I'm now entering a new phase of this whole process.
reality? the toughts and the fantasies linger on a long long time even after things have supposedily broken off. and if either one has an SUV hopefully they dont run into eachother at the mall ...