feel like giving up - talk to me!

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Thanks G - my H is immature and refuses to address our issues. He'd rather not talk about anything and tries to avoid if possible. I really sometimes think he is a freak. Do other H's act this way? I don't yell or push but rather come at him in a non threatening or pushy way like - I have some things that are really bothering me can we talk? He immediately says, I don't wanna fight. He's always been like this. He is acting like a jerk by giving me the silent treatment (immature and urks me) whistling around the house when he knows I am upset. His behavior (telling him I don't like how you are acting) he has been drinking too much and I have called him on that. I guess he just doesn't want to be told what to do. I should just let him self destruct. I want to give up. I've tried so hard to be patient and mature about this. I've read DB but how do you fix things when your spouse won't talk about it?