K4D Rising #4

[K4D]

Confusious say that man who cooks own turkey becomes master baster...

And there you have it folks. lol.

Kevin

[Puppy Dog Tails]

I'm not planning on any thanksgiving quickies. If she asks for one, I will be strong and flatly refuse.

Confusious say that man who cooks own turkey becomes master baster...

So long as we don't try to taste our own giblets . . .

Puppy

[K4D]

I better pick up some protection on the way home.

Oops, was that out loud? DOH!

Kevin

[25yearsmlc]

Did you even read my @#$%^&* post??!! You know, the part where you take a step back and READ what people write to you, and then think about it???

I spent a lot of time on that post, like so many others spending so much time on your "revolving but never evolving" situation....but you just spend a lot of time & energy to avoid....working on you...

j-

[K4D]

Did you even read my @#$%^&* post??!! You know, the part where you take a step back and READ what people write to you, and then think about it???

I spent a lot of time on that post, like so many others spending so much time on your "revolving but never evolving" situation....but you just spend a lot of time & energy to avoid....working on you...

25,

Yes I read it. And yes I intend to follow through with it and going back through the posts that have been written to me. What is the deal? I am at work, took a few out to be humorous, kind of a way to lighten up the week with thanksgiving and you blow up about it. What kind of response were you wanting from me? I read it. I am going to do it. I agree with what you wrote.

I don't know what else you want me to say. Sorry I didn't stay in a totally serious mood today with a long thoughtful written out response for each and every statement in each and every post.

I apologize for that. I will make sure I am more aware of that next time.

Kevin

[CityGirl]

This is exactly what 25 was trying to point out - this is a pattern. You have LOTS of people sticking by you here and your pattern is to deflect when the subject of detachment and boundaries come up. The very subject of many of us feeling ignored by your response (or lack of them) has been brought up frequently. Another pattern, another apology and the cycle repeats.

From my end (and apparently I am not alone in my thinking) it does get frustrating.

[K4D]

I didn't ignore anything. If I don't give a long drawn out statement to each statement made regarding something, you think I ignored it or didn't pay attention to it. I did pay attention to it.

I understand what was being said. Take a break from things and detach. Find myself. Let everyone and everything else go and work on me. I got it all and understood it all. I didn't ignore it or blow it off.

Kevin

[smith18]

I spent a lot of time on that post, like so many others spending so much time on your "revolving but never evolving" situation....but you just spend a lot of time & energy to avoid....working on you...

j (and CityGirl) - I dont know why you waste your time anymore by putting together such thoughtful (and colorful) posts only to be ignored.

What we've got here is... failure to communicate. Some men you just can't reach.

Kevin - It would not hurt if you could paraphrase and validate what 25 and CG post so they dont feel like they are talking to a brick wall. When you do respond, it sure seems as if you are doing it from a defensive stand point.

[K4D]

I am honestly not ignoring them. I would not do that. As I said, I intend to go back and read through my threads and really reflect on things.

Kevin

[K4D]

25,

I should have acknowledged what you wrote. I read it, and then I got back to work. Then later I came back on and had what I thought was a humorous thought and decided to try and be funny.

I should have taken the time to break down what you wrote and thoughtfully respond as all of your posts are very thoughtful, well written and full of excellent knowledge and advice. The same goes for CG's posts also.

I do apologize for that. I also admit that I get sidetracked easily when I break away from something and come back later. That is no excuse. I did read everything you wrote and I intend to do that.

Kevin