First time poster feeling a bit lost

[MT21]

Update:

So shes away on business, I had parents evening at the school, I thought I'd wait until she phoned...Knowing she wouldnt..Expecting me to make first move.

I stuck to my guns...But the children were getting more and more anxious..Can we phone mummy?

Eventually I caved and asked my eldest to phone..After a few minutes talking to the Kids it was my go..She asked for me.

I was quite short, she asked how the parents evening had gone? I just said fine no problems..(silence) so what did they say? every things good(I respond) (silence)and wish her good night.

I knew it hurt her not having the detail..and shes now thinking whats wrong with him?

Guilt kicked in 5 minutes later. I shouldnt use the children or their exploits as a weapon. I called her back.

Explained that I wanted to get them to bed and had had a challenging evening with them. She thanked me for calling, and said she would call me tomorrow.

What is that all about? She wants to go but offers to call tomorrow, and the next night..until she sees me on Friday..

Is she in or out? or confused about whats shes done? Because I sure am.

MT