He can have them whenever he wants to, but when he has me ask them, they always say no. My oldest doesn't speak to him and hasn't in almost a month.
He has seen them 4 times for a total of maybe 2 hours.
Hmmm... He really needs to reach out to them and not have you do it for him. I never ask my W to ask my girls if they want to spend time with me. We set it up to where I get them every other week and she gets them every other week.
Is he a good dad to them when he is around? Are they upset with him about the situation? Has he tried to make amends to them?
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
