It's been 3 years since I've been around here and it figures I'm back. I mostly lurk but decided to get in here and try get advice from fellow lonely husbands and wives. Things were going pretty well (what I thought) but I guess not. We were working on trust and I was feeling much better about our relationship. H has been stressed at work and lately is acting like a complete jerk. He is giving me the silent treatment and back to his old antics. I get upset and call him on his behavior and he says "I'm fighting." I tell him talking about things is not a fight. He is shutting down and I'm getting more resentful by the day. I feel like I wanna shut down and WA! I know this post isn't all too revealing but wanted to keep it short. Talk to me guys...


M44 H41
M20 T23
3 older teens
Bomb Nov 09 "i'm not happy"
EA Nov 09 w/coworker
Another PA in Mar 10
I Filed Apr 10
D final Dec 10