What would you do for a friend or a close colleague in similar circumstances?
Honestly? Not that much.
I'd pick a time (1 on 1) and tell them I was sorry about what was happening. After saying this once, I'd leave it alone.
If they were a work colleague or employee, I'd cut them some slack, expecting that they needed a bit of time for a while to take care of things and wouldn't always be carrying their full daily workload.
If they were a friend, I would understand if they didn't want to do anything social, but would still include them in the invites in case they did.
Other than that...?
Last edited by Thinker; 11/24/0908:51 PM.
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.