Exactly what I was thinking. I'll be with her father, she can always call him. Plus I'll monitor my messages and decide what constitutes an emergency. As far as the incidentals, I think that just taking back control of my own financial affairs will send a huge message for now. I'm resisting the temptation to be controlling, over overbearing. She's a big girl. I really do need to think things through though. Perfect timing to be a good Samaritan for her father. This was her Idea when the affair was full throttle, and I was of course Oblivious. But now, I could use a getaway of her own making. I hear the fishing is good right now.

Oblivious
Me / W 47
EA 07/09 to ?
PA ?
M 13 Years

marriage is the most interesting event of one's life, the foundation of happiness or misery.
GEORGE WASHINGTON, May 23, 1785