Haven't seen you here for a good bit. Hope you are OK. I'm sorry that you're having to deal with the crap that you are. Broken marriages and broken families SUCK!
I am on your side.
Look at what TrentC has posted to you. This is what he would say to a friend, or somebody else that he cared about, who was living under the same circumstances that you are. My guess is that this is what you would say also to a friend, or somebody else that you cared about, who was living under these same circumstances. What he posted to you makes sense, and it's also true.
Your husband doesn't value you and he doesn't respect you. You have to let others know that you value and respect yourself enough to let go of people who don't value and respect you!
I'm sorry. This is painful stuff that most of us are dealing with here on this board. I hope good things for you.
ps - again, I'm on your side.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
