You should. You should, everytime she wants to talk about something that is not related to the children you should slip that question in. If she initiates the converstation there is nothing harrassing about asking for sex from your wife.
Except that it would not draw her closer to me. It would do quite the opposite.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...