I was throwing out some humor. It was a joke folks. I am not stupid enough to make a request like that.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
It was a joke. Nobody saw any humor in that? I guess I need to pay more attention to comedians. It obviously didn't hit a humorous nerve for anyone.
Nevermind. Please disregard. I am more intelligent than to do that.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
I think this is a good opportunity to turn that request fantasy into some reality thinking.
Why would you WANT to sleep with your W when you darn well know she is sleeping with another man? I get the whole urge thing, but !ICK! Knowing that my exh was with another woman made my skin crawl towards him in that way.
Turn your thoughts around. Not to what you think you are missing. Think...ewwwwwww...you don't want her now anyway?
Make sense? I hope it came out right.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
I guess asking W for a bit of a thanksgiving ML session is out of the question. It would probably piss off OM if he is still in the picture. Although, it could be worth asking just to piss him off. The problem is it would probably piss off my W to.
I just don't understand it. What could be so bad about a thanksgiving quickie with the W? I would be thankful for it.
Kevin
You should. You should, everytime she wants to talk about something that is not related to the children you should slip that question in. If she initiates the converstation there is nothing harrassing about asking for sex from your wife.
I have been working on a project at work and thought I would take a short break.
As far as making me a better person today? I guess I won't know that until I leave work and see where I am at today.
My dad is in town visiting for the week so me and the girls are spending time with him. My W picks up the girls for the rest of the week tomorrow night. My dad is watching them each day while I am at work so he wants to just kick back, eat, watch football and relax on Thursday without having to entertain the girls.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
Why would you WANT to sleep with your W when you darn well know she is sleeping with another man? I get the whole urge thing, but !ICK! Knowing that my exh was with another woman made my skin crawl towards him in that way.
You should. You should, everytime she wants to talk about something that is not related to the children you should slip that question in. If she initiates the converstation there is nothing harrassing about asking for sex from your wife.
Except that it would not draw her closer to me. It would do quite the opposite.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
I guess asking W for a bit of a thanksgiving ML session is out of the question. It would probably piss off OM if he is still in the picture. Although, it could be worth asking just to piss him off. The problem is it would probably piss off my W to.
I just don't understand it. What could be so bad about a thanksgiving quickie with the W? I would be thankful for it.
Kevin
You should. You should, everytime she wants to talk about something that is not related to the children you should slip that question in. If she initiates the converstation there is nothing harrassing about asking for sex from your wife.
What a great idea. Don't forget to use hand gestures. Maybe use an Austin Powers accent as well.
