I'm starting to feel bad for the guy. Should I make the kids spend the night with him?
Why make his job easier?
He has to make a relationship with his kids for himself. They may not be ready for that yet. Pushing them to spend time their dad won't work any better than pushing your H to work on the marriage.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
