I think this is a good opportunity to turn that request fantasy into some reality thinking.
Why would you WANT to sleep with your W when you darn well know she is sleeping with another man? I get the whole urge thing, but !ICK! Knowing that my exh was with another woman made my skin crawl towards him in that way.
Turn your thoughts around. Not to what you think you are missing. Think...ewwwwwww...you don't want her now anyway?
Make sense? I hope it came out right.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
