Nice. Just make sure you really beleive the ship has left the harbour and your not looking over your shoulder. You have to really beleive and let go. Only then will the possibilities be realized, one way or another.
It's great that you are getting out on a 'date of sorts.' I tell you when I was ready, seeing women really helped me to realize what it was like to actually be appreciated and respected again. It felt great. This along with the permanant changes I made by DB'ing made me a good catch as well as the feeling that I deserve a good person in my life.
Have a great holiday!
Formerly SGfan M:38 W:33 M:8 yrs T:10 yrs Bomb: Dec '08 Separated: 4/18/09 Divorce: 8/28/09 XW Affair began: April 08