So, if talking is what she responds to then how do I do it now while being detached? Do I want to show her that she can talk to me at this point? Our court date is in January and after that we will be divorced. I dont really have much to lose at this point.
She has said to me that she wants to be friends like we were in highschool but that is it. I have been seeing this as cake eating but maybe it is my way back into her heart? Because... when I confronted her on the 27th she told me that "if we could be friends like we were in highschool then great, that is all I can offer right now." Did she show her hand when she said "right now"?
Back in june we had one of the phone talks where she broke down and through tears said, "when we talk about music or work it reminds me of how we were in highschool,that is comfort to me." I thought I was on the right path but then I would read in her journal about her wanting to spend every waking moment with the other guy.! So I detached...
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final
