Can I save my marriage?

[Ready2Change]

C'mon Britt... toe the line girl. Use them feminine instincts of yours. Pick his closest spy with whom you are on good terms with, connect with them and in the course of conversation casually drop your spicy gossip in.

Example: You're on good terms with SIL, whom you know will blab to him the minute you get off the phone. Call her up. Talk about the weather or whatever. Somewhere you mention, "Hey girl, I've just got to tell you this! I met this cute guy at work today. Wow, is he hot! And he asked me out. Can you believe it!" and then wait for the fish to bite with the question, "So, what did you do?" ... and then you act all nervous... "I shouldn't have told you about that. Just forget about it OK?" ... when she pushes for more... you say, "Nothing happened. Just forget about it. Please don't say anything." .... and that is how it's done.

Other ideas: Insinuation is your friend. Ask SIL WHERE SHE bought HER sexy dress. Then respond "Do you know somewhere else I can go (closer) or (Sooner)." Then no details about why.