We had a 20-year SSM (Sex-Starved Marriage), then my wife's affair in the summer of '07. Filed for D later that summer, had two "stays" of the order, and then we withdrew it for good last year. We've been working on it since, and yes, we are living together full-time now. The "separation" lasted all of about two weeks, LOL! We're MCing now, and while we still have some "clashing libido" issues, we have a great MC and we're very positive about the direction things are going.
Thanks for asking!
They were right when they all told me that the "piecing" part would be the hardest part -- even harder than busting the affair! I didn't believe it at the time, but it's so true!
