Originally Posted By: Ready2Change
Just thinking out loud here. Other ideas to ponder on different behavior.


Originally Posted By: aflowergurlie
he just took the 4-wheeler and trailer and left.
Do you take the 4-wheeler out without H? Might be fun to take a friend and go use it. It is marital property correct? Might stir some emotions in H. If it does, do not react...."Sorry you feel that way".....


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my stuff still in my hands, H got home and came in kitchen door. H looks at me with smile on his face and says "Oh, what did you just get home to?" I just smiled and said yes and then walked out of kitchen to my bedroom and went to bed.
Another option, "Yes, I need to get a few things". Back to bedroom, then out of house again. Go to hotel and let him be home alone....


Tactically, I love BOTH of these ideas!!!