Tried something new today and it seemed to work. In thinking about my H's behavior the past couple of days and a few comments he made - it became clear to me that something else is bothering him. He wasn't sleeping well which woke me up this morning. When I asked him what's wrong he said just worrying about money (his business). Told him I was praying for him.
So this morning when I got to work I called him and invited him to lunch. He checked his schedule and called me back to say he could go. We had a good lunch - he really opened up about the stress he's under. We talked about some of the issues I'm having with my parents. All-in-all a good conversation. He mentioned his struggle again about getting his business to the next level. I told him the one thing I can do to help is to do research into consultants etc. He seemed to really appreciate my support (one of his past complaints was about my lack of interest/involvement in this business).
Day two of not checking phone records. Trying to let that go and just move forward. I'll take every good day I can get.
By Thursday, I will have walked over 300 miles since March - down 30 lbs!
