P.S. Got hit on today at work. A patient came in and flirted with me like crazy. Wow, what a great feeling. Has anybody ever mentioned things like this to their spouses inconspicuouly?
I would not recommend "telling" S in words. Show him in your actions, behavior, etc. Sounds like a boost to the self confidence. One thing you can do is to think of that positive event, and you will feel that feeling again. Great way to project happiness to H.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712