Hey Bobbi, I'm really sad to hear that, but I'm glad you are so 'together'. You dont bitch and whine, you're really a brave woman!

I'm glad that things are amicable with H though and he is able to come round the house and put up lights for the kids (although guess you will be reinforcing those boundaries as time goes by). My Auntie, whose children were younger than yours never spoke to her H again, or him to her, not sure which. Not healthy.

I actually believe him that he hasnt yet let go of you and is still 'trying'. He sounds scared. I guess he knows, realistically theres a good chance he would end up being unfaithful again and he cant face putting you through that.

Hugs xxx


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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