SP- did you read what Puppy said? He said to "think" about what is being posted to you, not follow, agree, accept...
I figured you'd refrain from even responding cuz it was such succinct and reasonable advice but there you went.
I adore you enough to say that I doubt very much that your wise-cracking, quick to respond, mentally exhausting arguments don't affect your relationships with women (btw , takes one to know one so I'm calling it on myself too).
It is not that you don't follow or agree, it is that you don't seem to stop, think, explore others' input. And then you whip out jargon that you must know is going to pummel your fellow conversationalists into either submission or stupor.
Explore how this may contribute to your R troubles...just think about it.
