Hey Puppy, early in my post you and a few others warned me about the possibility of W having an EA or PA. At this point, I almost wish she has one. Because, that would really end it for me! She's been telling friends and family that it was a mutual breakup so that she would look good. Of course I've told her friends that's not the case. If she is seeing an OM, she would really look bad. She cares so much about how she is perceived.
I really don't know if I can forgive her if she did have a PA.