Sandi2, At present there is not much choice practically. I have no problems with this, but if we are going to live in the same house why not just a 'separation'? I have asked and I can't say I get a coherent answer.
Me (47) W (42) D (18) adopted 2 years ago from Russia S (almost 16), S (13) M 19 years Bomb 10/09
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