Originally Posted By: hbdad
Sunday - STUPIDITY

Here's where I make a huge mistake. I decide I've had enough of living in a room while I am not at the family home. I decide in my mind that she is cake eating. She wants the D, She is having the EA. So I grab my stuff and head home. I walk in and say I am staying here tonight. Which is contempt of court!


What, what??? I missed something. How is that possible? Did you violate a restraining order or court order or some kind?

Where did you sleep together Friday night if not at the house? Did she come to your place?

Originally Posted By: hbdad
I hop in the shower, take my sleeping meds and go to bed. WAW flips out and calls the police on me, creates a huge scene in front of the kids. I am to blame and I accept that. But did she really have to fan the flames and call the police?


Um, if you violated the terms of the separation agreement, absolutely she was in the right. What in the hell were you thinking?

And make no mistake, you were the one who "created the scene" in front of your kids when you barged into the house and announced you were staying there. If she was the one telling this story, I'd absolutely tell her to call the cops.


Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."