Well I am not wasting my pretty any more. Attorney just emailed, he wants to meet the week of 12/7 to write up a settlement proposal. Wow. Only 2 weeks...if Dan agrees to it which I imagine he will, I will be all but divorced before Christmas. Just a matter of the waiting period...
Double Wow! Things sure do move fast out there in Iowa - divorced before Christmas!! Here in Virginia you have to live separated in "Limboland" for 1 year (if kids are involved) before you can even file for divorce, which is not a bad thing IF there is an even remote chance of reconcilliation.