All of you guys are right on target. I need a good kick in the nards to wake up. I guess I just need to hear it from subject matter experts. I will not let myself be de-throned! I'll start with the finances tonight. Should I discard the souvenirs, or tell her to do it? Should I leave BF alone, or call his wife and let her know what is in store for her? He was constantly bragging during our short friendship about moving all of his assets and divorcing her. My gut tells me to leave them alone. But she’s the one who originally told me.

Oblivious
Me / W 47
EA 07/09 to ?
PA ?
M 13 Years

marriage is the most interesting event of one's life, the foundation of happiness or misery.
GEORGE WASHINGTON, May 23, 1785