Rollin' down the river...

[TrentC]

My desire is we could build on the friendship and if/when the A ends, we might see what we could rebuild. But I will stay focused on my current reality, taking care of my children and focusing on being the best me I can be.

You don't mind playing second fiddle to the OW? You're hoping that maybe he might come back to you if the affair ends?

The D hasn't been filed yet. I've gone back to feeling like I don't need to push it. When he wants to file I'd told him I'd split the filing fee, but I don't need to file first. Maybe he isn't sure or maybe he is, but I will sit back and wait.

So you're going to be content with staying unhappily married to a man who's living with another woman. And you're willing to split the cost of filing with him?

I hope that works out for you.

I don't see him changing any time soon because he's got his OW in one hand and you taking care of his kids in the other.