You did the right thing by telling him you want to be left alone. Lay down the ground rules. Go to counseling. At the counseling let him know you will accept him back IF the other woman is gone and he is willing to prove it and he is willing to get his own counseling. The Love & Respect video is a GREAT idea but he can start first by RESPECTING you. You want to believe. We all want to believe. DON'T you believe it, until he is willing to prove it with total transparency. Do you think you deserve anything less?
Me 44 She 46 S13 D9 M18 T23 3 years DB'ing Successfully busted