DOOD! As a former puss boy/enabler, I gotta tell you, these guys are absolutely right. The crushing sound you hear right now is your nuts. I absolutely empathize with the fear you are feeling right now but I can tell you from experience that even if you do keep your wife, you are creating a precedent for the way your relationship will be going forward and it will take twice as long to recover IF ever. You are creating, what at one point around here, we called an entitlement monster. It is evil and you want no part of it.
I kept my wife but easily added a year of misery to my situation by going down the path you are now. Things are getting better here but every single day is a battle to get my nards back. Remarkably the only time things get better is when I put my foot down. She screems bloody murder, I point to the door. Beyond all logic, usually a day later she is nicer than before I stood up to her. R E S P E C T.
DO NOT make the same mistake. Pup and Rob sound harsh but trust me, if you can't solve your situation their way, you are better off leaving now.
Me 44 She 46 S13 D9 M18 T23 3 years DB'ing Successfully busted
