I plan to be there for her emotionally if she needs to confide about her BF withdrawal, but the more she discloses, the more dead I am feeling. I do not know if this is her remorse, or if I am already in her mind the EX, who she feels she can confide in. She physically embraces me and I hold her and am non judgmental when she confides. But it is killing me inside. I can’t do this too much longer. I am becoming numb. Right before we went to bed last night, she put on BF’s T-shirt inside out, and told me that this old beat up coffee cup she has been using in our bathroom is BF’s. It is still sitting on the bathroom counter, and she is still wearing BF’s T-shirt sleeping peacefully as I write this. Has she completely departed from reality?
Have you BOTH?
Good lord, dude -- have some self-respect. The MOST you should do for her is say "I hate to see you hurting," or "I'm sorry you are hurting, but this is the consequences of the poor choices you made." Do NOT hug her thru it, like some gay boyfriend.
Puppy
Don't you dare to be there for her emotionally so that she can confide in you about her BF?
Are you F!@#$% nuts!?
She will use you to heal herself and move on and leave you empty and how will you be after that is accomplished?
